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Liz’s turn to share ….
Monday 30th JunMND…
An illness I knew very little about before Dad one day said in our family chat “it could be MND”… we all said “no way Dad”… while I sent back a message of encouragement, I began furiously googling MND… reading the symptoms, the different forms it develops in, and everything that was to come…
My heart sank.
Not my big Dad. My strong, fit, gruff, big old Aussie Dad. No way.
When the diagnosis was confirmed, I cried a lot. Big, ugly, snotty, body shaking sobbing.
Panic mode set in of how I could support my beautiful parents who showed me how marriage was supposed to be…
Looking back, I didn’t do that well. I was selfish. I could have done more. I visited more, stayed longer… so many things I look back on and I’m guilty about.
Before Dad’s voice started to go, he sat me down on the bed, and spoke to me quietly. Told me all the things he needed to tell me. And I ugly sobbed the whole way through that too.
I told him of my guilt. He put a stop to that. No way was I to feel guilty about raising my kids and living my life. Loving my husband, and getting on with it.
In that chat, he said to me, “don’t wait to do things, don’t leave it until it’s too late, like it is for Mum and I now. We had just started enjoying our lives, and now I’m sick. Please don’t wait. Live your life.”
So that’s what I’m doing. I’m living my life, I’m saying yes to things, to experiences, I’m raising my kids, I’m working hard, but I’m still doing my best to say yes.
What I thought I’d talk about in my post has changed… it was going to be how it affected me. Instead it’s going to be memories… those that I shared with Dad, just before he turned 60 in 2022. Pretty sure I made him cry big ugly tears, same as I am doing now after reading the message I sent him as I watched MND take him away from us…
I’m sorry if I make you cry, but I hope it gives you some insight into how I felt about my big Dad.
To my darling Dad.
I know I’m going to make you cry, so I’m sorry for that.
But I’ve got all these memories in my head and I don’t want you to leave this earth without knowing the memories I’ll treasure forever.
Some are with you, some are with Mum, some are with Nanny & Pa, but they’re all memories that make me smile. They’re the memories I’ll cherish, and tell my kids and my grandkids about when they’re older and want to know more about their Pa.
My earliest memory is with Mum. Planting the tree at preschool by the mens toilets, that, now, every man in Ariah Park has peed on!
In my head, it was cold, grey and raining. I remember running out with Mum, planting the tree and running back to the cover of preschool. That’s my earliest memory.
Let’s start with Nanny and Pa. Nanny’s roses, the side bedrooms off their room, full of treasures, playing hide and seek with Felicity, baths in that beautiful green bath, Nanny’s beautiful clothes, her head scarves, the day Felicity jumped out of the plane, I can close my eyes and see them all. They make me so happy. I have no memories of Nanny being sick. Whether the adults shielded us from that as kids, or whether I just don’t remember it, I don’t remember her being sick. She was always just Nanny.
Then there’s the Sunday lunches and the fairy dell. So many days where we went for a beautiful lunch with Nanny and Pa, after we’d been down to that fairy dell and left our Wishlist. We all went for a rest and never ever noticed the cars leaving to duck into town to get our treats.
It was truly magical, and such an amazing childhood memory that so many of Nanny and Pa’s grand babies hold onto.
Pa… The shearing shed, watching him potter as he got older and slower. Counting out sheep at the end of each run and buggering off to take them away when it wasn’t needed just yet. Bloody Adam!!
Sissy… oh I loved Sissy. She was such a sweet dog, and such a good worker.
And fat old Sally, but she didn’t work, she just loved us.
Back to the shed… Seeing you and Pa collapse into piles of wool with a cup of tea and a sandwich, even for just 5 minutes.
Pa’s shandy at lunch when we were at Maxine’s, and his happy smile.
His hugs still bring out all of those memories.
The shearing shed is where most of my memories lie. That smell will forever take me back to listening to talkback radio on AM, singing to old classics and listening to banter between the shearer’s, all the while my hamstrings and thighs BURNING from overuse on day 2 and 3, then it got better, once they wore in!
Seeing Merino’s fly through the pens because the stupid assholes wouldn’t run! Giggling as I listened to you swear at them like they’d listen!
The end of the day was my favourite. All the pens were ready, under the shed was full, the shorn ones had been taken away, and the shed was clean.
Shearer’s had gone home, and there was just some pressing and tidying up to do.
You and Pa working quietly, pressing wool, counting the days runs out, writing cheques on fridays.
Then the drive home. Presses were turned off, everything was done. Shutting the shed door, Beer in hand, music on, windows down, and just us. I loved that so much.
I feel like my love of farming came from those days with you in the sheds, of trying my best to help in the tractor when you needed paddocks worked up, I was SO proud of myself that you asked me to come with you. Bloody fencing! I hated doing it, but I love the memories of it now. Walking through paddocks picking Bathurst burrs out, bloody paddy melons!
Then the rain. Petrichor. As that rain started to hit the ground, your body relaxed. Sitting on the back verandah of the new house, watching the storms roll in over the paddock, surrounded by your kids and sitting with Mum. It’s an image that’s permanently etched in my head. It’s probably my favourite memory.
Basketball and tennis nights, there’s too many memories to count. Lots of chip packets and cans of coke afterwards. Eventually, me working in the pub in the kitchen.
There was always praise for our sports, sometimes in a round a bout way, but I find myself doing the same thing with my kids now.
Footy… I remember getting my nice clothes on to go to West Wyalong with you when you coached them, watching you play footy, I just wanted to be like you.
I remember being so bloody frustrated that I wasn’t allowed to play AFL because I’d already grown boobs! Netball was boring me, and I just wanted to be out there playing footy.
Then we went to Union. Cold Temora nights, running up and down paddocks, being shit scared of being tackled as a 14 year old girl, but you were always there to pick us up, dust Cass and I off, and push us to keep going.
When I hurt my knee in Albury, most of that is a blur… I can’t imagine why 😳😂 but I do remember thinking it would be ok because you were there to get me home.
Oh that week you went away to fight fires. When you can home and put your suit on. Oh the smell! It was so potent!!
I can only imagine, now as an adult, how frightening that must have been for Mum to send you away and for you to do it. I know you did it because you just did. So many things you did, because that’s just you. Always taking care of others.
When I left Michael, the first time. The hug I was enveloped in when I was crying, hating my life and unsure how to move on. Even though I went back for a little bit longer, I knew I still had you and Mum. I knew I’d be ok.
It took a bloody long time but I am ok now.
All of our weddings… maybe not my first one so much. My second one could have been better too but having you walk me down that aisle to Jono… the smiles on yours and Mums faces. I love your smiles, both of you.
I wish now I’d have danced with you at my second wedding, but that wasn’t planned real well. Things you’d change now but can’t!
But seeing you dance with Cass & Kathleen… it’s such a beautiful memory. The proud Dad at all of our weddings, especially seeing as we’re the only bloody grandchildren Pa has seen marry!
When I drove home with Henry… god that was a long drive, but it felt so good to be back home. To see you and Mum fuss over Henry. It’s a bit more blurry… 16 years ago almost!
When I was in labour with Faith. It wasn’t a hesitation to drive to Orange to sit with me while I laboured with Faith for that entire day.
Your hand rubbing my arm while I had contractions. You heading down to the entrance to make sure Jono got to me.
Seeing the look on your face when you met Faith. Just having you, Mum and Kathleen there was something I’ll be forever grateful for.
Then meeting my little chunky, toupee wearing Lincoln!
There’s so many Dad, that come to me at different times. And before this stupid disease takes you from our lives, I wanted you to know that there’s so many happy memories in my childhood, and as an adult.
I truly am blessed to have been born into the family that I was born into. And I hope that you always know that I’m forever grateful for all the love and support you and Mum have given me over the years. I love you so much xoxo

Cass’ post…
Sunday 1st Jun
The difficult years....
Saturday 17th MayIn those last two years a lot of machinery came into our lives. The sleep apnoea machine because with MND the diaphragm gets lazy so the machine had to pump air IN and OUT. Our bedroom and bathroom had be completely rejigged thanks to my beautiful friends and the NDIS, to accommodate the lifter and electric wheelchairs. The waterbed we had our whole marriage had to go and an electric bed came in so Crack could move a little easier. We invested in a motion camera so he could wave if he needed us, a doorbell above his head and google home for him to listen and sleep to his music. We had to buy an electric armchair but even that needed adjustments as lovey was so tall. That was fixed thanks to Ted and some 100 year old timber. The electric wheelchair gave Crack back his freedom for a while which was a blessing… I’ve forgotten the name we gave her. And then there was the people.. family, friends, OTs, Physios, the community and palliative nurses, Dr Kurtzer, our MNDNSW bulldog Jenny and Kacey with her needling.. all doing their best to make Crack’s life as comfortable as they could. One of his hardest days was having to tell Ted and Dom he wouldn’t be able to work anymore. This was just after Ariah Park held the fundraiser for him and soley because of that event, I was able to take leave from preschool and Narrabura and stay home for the last 9 months of Crack’s life and care for him. Funny when you think back.. it was his mum Lola that talked me into doing my enrolled nurses training. Without that I wouldn’t have had the tools to nurse her baby boy.
If I'm brutally honest our last hours together were awful... no fairytale movie ending. We were both testy and cross. I was exhausted and he was uncomfortable and looking back now i know why but that will never assuage the guilt of our last interaction not being a loving touching goodbye. I fell asleep and his heart stopped. I can never get those moments back and I live with that but also knowing that he would tell me not to be stupid. That I had done enough and that he loved me more than anything. In the end he was ready to go. Crack hated that he couldn’t do anything for himself not feed himself or even roll over in bed. He hated that he was reliant on everyone else but he was always grateful. He hated that he couldn’t eat anything but pureed food, that he couldn’t have a beer with his mates or pick up his grandkids, that he couldn’t even speak in the end and especially that he couldn’t put his arms around me or his precious children. It was just time.
Over the next few months I’m asking the kids to join me and give you some of their thoughts. I’m sorry this one is long but while we’re on this journey we might as well share the love… and the pain. Thanks for hearing me out xx
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Monday 10th Mar Hi poppets.Thank you to my Sponsors

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Elders Ariah Park Elders Ariah Pae

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Southern Silage Contractors
We love you Shaz xx

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Kace Quade
You’re amazing Shaz! Crack was a great man, missed so dearly x

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We’ve got our hand on your shoulder Mumma Love you xx love from Jono, Liz, Henry, Faith & Lincoln.

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Railway Hotel Temora
Well done ladies great cause! We just wanted to reach out and say a heartfelt thank you for the incredible work you're doing to raise funds and awareness for Motor Neurone Disease. Your commitment to this cause makes a real difference—not only in helping to fund vital research, but also in offering hope and support to those affected by MND and their loved ones. Fundraising efforts like yours are so important in driving progress toward better treatments and, one day, a cure. Wishing you continued strength and success in your efforts.

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Bec, Jock And The Boys
All the best Shaz. We will be cheering you on. A very worthy cause. 💕

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Sondi Ryall
You’ve got this Shaz, so proud of you for stepping out of your comfort zone. Oh the fun you will have 💙💙

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Kathleen & Garrett Doig
Proud of you Mumma Bear! 💙

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Keep up the great work

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What a team! Go get the beast girls 🙌🏻💙

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Sending loads of love to you Shaz. Baz & Kaz xx

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Great work Shaz! ❤️

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Gillian Bett
Shaz, I’m not on FB much, but am grateful to have come across your daughter’s heartfelt sharing. I’ve always loved you from afar and you’re a hero in my eyes too. I’m sorry for then and the on going pain of loss now.

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Deb Roberts
Proud of you Shaz. You got this 🙌

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Briony Bird
So much love to you Shaz! You are amazing and Crack would be so proud of you xx

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Cassandra Irvine
Xxoo

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Kim Webster
Go you!! Mwah Cous.

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Jonathon Mott

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Kate Lynch
You have all our love right behind you. Uncle Ian would be extremely proud of you 🥰❤️❤️❤️ Lots of love Kate, Rob and kids xoxo

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Dave & Carmel Daley

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Andrea Austin
So proud of you. You are amazing and we Love you. Look forward to watch your journey. You have got this.

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Got gettam Shaz love your work well done 😘💪

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Kaye Hamilton

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Vanessa Heinjus
Well done Shaz, a great cause ❤️

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Maddy Keane
All the best on your journey Shaz! Lots of love! 💙

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George & Lulu Patsalides

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Danielle Reardon
Have the best time

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Tricia Catlin
💖💖

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Maree Pinney
Good luck & best wishes Sharon . Happy to travel this journey with you

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Charlie Eyles

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Brad & Scott
Love you and uncle Ian so much Aunty Shazz, have always been proud of having an aunty like you and this is just another in the long list of reasons x

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Anthony & Ros Leary
Well done Shaz and team ❤️

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Jamie & Clara-jane Amarant
We love you Shaz x you are stronger than you think...so proud of you as would Crack be love from Clara, Jamie Children ❤️

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Janet Murphy
Much love

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Kaylene Farthing (wynd)
Hi Shaz, I am sorry for the loss of your beautiful husband. I have lost 2 cousins to MND, one being a well respected Cardiologist who was working with the University of Newcastle to help find a cure. Unfortunately the disease found her before she could accomplish her mission. Thank you for all that you are doing and wish you all the best.

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Debbie Worland
Here’s hoping we can bust the beast together

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We love you Lola Shaz! We’re always here for you ❤️

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Sending higs

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Marg Oglesby
You've got this Shaz and we are all behind you!! ❤️

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Lucy
Good job shaz ❤️❤️

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Love the Cowans

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So much love to you Shaz 💕

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Elle Deane
You're an inspiration to fellow strong women ❤️
On behalf of our Branch Elders Ariah Park and staff personally, we would like to raise awareness of this cruel disease love to you Shaz and Team . Elders Ariah Park x